Life & Death Are In the Power of the Tongue

Naomi @ sister’s grave

Proverbs 18:21

Ever known someone given a Cancer diagnosis and told there is “nothing the doctors can do for you. You have x amount of time to live, so go home and plan your funeral“. How many of those people are DEAD within the exact amount of time the doctor told them?

I myself was told that I’d be DEAD within 5 years if I did not do the chemo and radiation route. Yahweh-God my Creator had other plans, and I’m so thankful I listened to HIS words rather than the words of mortal men! My family is thankful too.

Naomi & Sharon shortly before Sharon’s death

The picture above is me at my sister Sharon’s grave. Life and Death were in the power of the words spoken to our mother when she was in the first trimester of pregnancy with Sharon… our mother had minor oral surgery and was told, “the numbing agent is safe for the baby and won’t affect him/her“. Sharon was born with no anal opening, meaning she could not poop … meaning she could not release toxins built up in her body; she was also born with only one kidney …. another organ that helps to flush toxins from the body. Sharon lived for only 22 months. I was 4.5 years old when she died… another story in itself.

Seven and a half years ago my Dad had a major stroke. We were told, “he won’t make it through the night!Yahweh-God our CREATOR had other plans!! My Dad is very much alive, about 98% recovered, doing pretty much all the things he’s loved to do… including at least 25 push ups & sit ups several days per week. AND, he just turned 86 years young!!

What are we seeing currently in our society … “The vaccine is safe! It will keep you from getting COVID. It will stop the spread of the disease. Trust the science“. How many of those who bought in to what the doctors and mainstream media said were DEAD within a very short time after taking the jab, or are on their way out due to that choice, or are dealing with debilitating health issues as a consequence to their decision to follow the doctors and mainstream media?

A local funeral director has told me that he is unusually busy. Hmmm…

I’m seeing more and more friends and acquaintances asking for prayers for family due to the sudden loss of a loved one who should otherwise still be alive. Hmmm…

Matthew 18:6, Mark 9:42, and Luke 17:2 all speak about it being better that a millstone be wrapped around a person’s neck and they be tossed into the sea for the words they have spoken. A pastor once told me that those words put curses on the person they are spoken to.

Hmmm…. know any adults that go through a life long struggle with self esteem due to negative words/curses spoken over them?

“You’re fat!”

“You’re stupid!”

“You always….!”

“Go away! Can’t you see I’m in the middle of ….!”

“What’s wrong with you!?”

What are words of uplifting encouragement that could replace the list above? 1 Thess 5:11 (KJV) says, “edify one another“. What does “edify” mean? The New American Standard version says, “encourage one another and build each other up“.

Edify: “To instruct/teach and improve the mind in knowledge generally, and particularly in moral and religious knowledge, in faith and holiness” – Source: Webster’s 1828 Dictionary

What’s the opposite of “edify”? Could it include Gaslighting? Very Well Mind says it is a form of manipulation that occurs in abusive relationships. It is an insidious and sometimes covert type of emotional abuse where the bully or abuser makes the target question their judgments and reality.1 Ultimately, the victim of gaslighting starts to wonder if they are losing their sanity. How many CHILDREN are victims?

I find for myself, this is a challenge I constantly deal with – both the curses that have been spoken over me, as well as the curses I’ve spoken over others, especially the people I love most.

Do you struggle with words spoken over you?

Do others struggle with words you’ve spoken over them?

Whose voice are YOU listening to?


My desire is to Inspire People. I want people when they meet me to say, “Because of You I did not give up!” I hope you have been inspired through my journey!


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You are FREE to Choose, but not free from the Consequences of your choices.

He who has an ear to hear, let him hear. I hope you are one who has ears to hear!

Until Next Time!

REMEMBER: The very best affirmations for me come in the form of witnessing the healing changes that come when people JOIN me on the journey of following the guidelines given to us by Yahweh – God our CREATOR rather than man and tastebuds! Deuteronomy 28 & Daniel 1:8


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